Why you keep on gaining weight back
and how to change it
A free 8 page booklet that could be the start of a new relationship with your body…
…starts with one brave step toward yourself.
There is a specific kind of heaviness that has nothing to do with what society thinks of your body, and everything to do with how you feel inside it.
If you are here, you are likely looking to release 10kg, 20kg, or 30kg. But if you’re honest, it isn’t just about the number. For many women in their 30s and 40s, it’s the quiet realization that you don’t fully know yourself yet—or that you have silenced major parts of yourself to keep everything else moving. You look in the mirror and don’t quite recognize the woman looking back, because she is “muffled” under layers of expectations and patterns that don’t belong to her.
You’ve likely heard the mantra that “health comes in every size,” and you know it’s true. You see women labeled as “overweight” who are radiantly healthy and at peace. But you also have the discernment to know that, for you, your current weight is not that.
For you, it feels like an anchor. It feels stagnant. It feels like a physical manifestation of:
The boundaries you didn’t set.
The needs you’ve pushed to the bottom of the list.
The intuition you’ve learned to ignore.
The emotional “excess” that has nowhere else to go.
If you’ve spent years in a loop of losing and regaining the same weight, you know how exhausting it is to treat your body like a math problem. Every time the weight came back, it wasn’t a failure of your will—it was your body trying to tell you that the root cause hadn’t been touched yet. Trying to solve this with a quick fix or another restrictive rule only masks the symptom. It doesn’t lighten the load you’re actually carrying.
I don’t believe in “weight loss” as a punishment or a performance for society. I believe in helping you return to your healthy, stable weight. This is the weight where you no longer have to “fight” to stay. It’s the version of you that feels capable in its movement, confident in its choices, and finally at ease in its own skin.
To get there, we don’t use quick fixes to mask the symptoms; we go after the root while learning, perhaps for the first time, how to truly care for the body you are in. We look at the practical ways to nourish and support your physical self, while simultaneously finding out what that “excess” is really trying to tell you. When you combine real body-care with the courage to listen to your needs, you can finally let the weight go and feel like you again.
Lya, Utrecht
This program is designed to help you break free from the cycle of dieting, shame, and self-abandonment. Together, we’ll address the mental, behavioral, and energetic patterns that have held you back. You’ll build sustainable habits that transform more than just your body—they will shift your relationship with your emotions, self-worth, and life.
A free 8 page booklet that could be the start of a new relationship with your body…